Give Kids More Say Over Their Money

In her July “5 Things To Try This Month” newsletter, Gretchin Rubin writes:

“A Happier with Gretchen Rubin podcast listener wrote in with a parenting hack: Offer a choice to children, even if it’s a small choice, such as going to bed at 7:30 or 7:34. Like everyone, kids want to feel some amount of control over their daily lives.”

That tiny bedtime choice may seem silly, but it taps into something profound: kids crave a sense of control.

Not only does a stronger sense of control make kids happier, I believe it leads to better learning outcomes and more effective habit formation as well.

With that in mind, what are some financial choices we can give our kids while still setting appropriate boundaries?

Here are seven examples:

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I recently received the following thoughtful question from a FamZoo parent (slightly edited to ensure anonymity):

Who Is Struggling With Their Cards?

FamZoo family members often struggle with their cards. Not surprising. Young kids are just learning the financial ropes and discovering the 11 important numbers they need to know. Teenagers inadvertently sign up for subscription services they can’t afford. Elderly family members have senior moments.

Are your family members struggling with their cards? When? Why? Where?

Unless you have activity alerts enabled, you may not know for sure. Even if you do, you may want to collect a handy summary report for a family finance meeting.

Here’s how to capture a quick struggle snapshot across the whole family: