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Resolve to Give Your Kids Hands-On Money Experience in 2013: Family Finance Picks #69

Reward SystemsWhat New Year’s resolutions have you made in the parenting department?

How about teaching your kids good money habits?

If your kids are old enough to ask for purchases at the check-out stand, they’re old enough to start practicing managing their own money. In fact, John Farrell of Rider University points out in the first article below:

Money management is a set of life skills that needs to be taught throughout our lives, from 5 to 105.

In other words, start early and don’t stop!

Ideally, schools should play an important role in financial education, but I really like what John has to say regarding the role of parents:

Parents actually have the primary responsibility for teaching these skills. What better place to teach about money than in the “economic unit” of a family. I believe parents are in the best position to educate their children.

In fact, this sounds perfectly in line with what we’ve stated on FamZoo’s “Our Philosophy” page for many years, which I’ll repeat here:

We believe a parent is a child’s best mentor. As a parent, you are in the best position to teach your children many of life’s most important skills. Nobody knows your kids and your family values like you do. You want the best for your children, and they naturally look to you for structure and guidance. We’re here to help you be the best mentor you can be.

Finally, I like how John emphasizes teaching personal finance skills in a “practical, hands-on manner:”

As educators, we also know that in-class learning can only take our financial education so far; learning by doing is a key element of anyone’s financial education. This is where parents come in as teachers, coaches and role models.

By all means, don’t make the mistake that Mary’s parents made in the second article below. Since they considered discussions about money to be "vulgar," they never discussed money matters with Mary as a child. Furthermore, they never even allowed her to handle money. Not surprisingly, Mary had money issues as a young adult.

So, three key things to keep in mind when it comes to your kids financial education:

  1. Start early.
  2. Be involved as a parent.
  3. Give your kids hands-on practice.

Need help getting started? Check out the 12 mom money rules in the second article. You might also check out my 3 simple tips here.

To help implement your money rules, you might resolve to set up online bank accounts for your kids like New York Times writer Ann Carrns describes in the third article. I applaud Ann’s effort, but to make things more hands-on and engaging for the kids, I recommend a virtual family bank approach instead, or perhaps a teen prepaid card for the older kids.

All that said, don’t spend too much time agonizing over which precise rules and tools are best. The most important thing is to resolve to start teaching your kids good money habits through hands-on practice in 2013. Then, follow through with your resolution going forward — fine tuning as necessary along the way.

Your kids will thank you...someday.

Make Financial Literacy a Lifelong Quest

by Chris Kissell on Fox Business Personal Finance

I love what John Farrell, Assistant Dean at Rider University, has to say in this interview about the role of parents and schools in teaching kids about personal finance!

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Any Time is a Good Time to Teach Kids about Money

Three moms share their top money rules for their kids. It’s very interesting to see how the diverse childhood experiences influenced each of the Mom Money Rules. It’s important to see that affluence does not guarantee money savvy behavior; communication and hands-on practice with personal finance from an early age is critical.

The 12 rules are split into 4 buckets: 3 individual sets of rules from each of the moms followed by one set of common recommendations. I don’t actually see any inherent contradiction in any of the 3 individual sets of rules. I’d encourage parents to apply elements of all 12 in their own way.

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My Resolution: Online Accounts for Allowances

Ann Carrns writes in the NY Times Bucks blog about her resolution to use ING sub-accounts for tracking allowance for her daughters. I certainly applaud Ann’s resolution to systematically work on good money habits with her daughters each week, introduce them to the concept of online banking, and teach the very important lesson that a balance amount on a screen corresponds to real money.

Whether we like it or not, our kids are entering a world increasingly dominated by electronic transactions. While a good starting point, a piggy bank or sock drawer with wads of cash does not prepare them adequately for that reality. I think sub-accounts are a fantastic banking feature — a great way to take the “envelope budgeting” approach to personal/family finance online. Ann may still wish to check out the “virtual family bank” services that her colleague, Ron Lieber, mentions in his article because they create a much more hands-on experience for the kids. Kids can sign in on their own to see their own funds, make/track savings goals/plans, get weekly statements, review their spending history, make simple budgets, etc. They feel a real sense of ownership and responsibility that way.

Parents can set up more flexible incentives/financial arrangements beyond simple recurring transfers (chore charts, matching, parent-defined savings interest rates, “commission” plans, automatic bill pay for shared expenses like cell phone data plans, loans for big ticket “needs” like computers for school, etc).

A virtual family bank is really identical in concept to what Ann is doing at ING except that the kids are more directly engaged, personal finance learning tools are built-in to the experience, and parents are in complete control of the bank “rules”. Some parents still use an ING sub account in conjunction with our virtual family bank IOU accounts so they can be sure they have the money on hand when their child needs to make a purchase. In the first half of this year, we’ll be introducing an integration of our virtual family bank accounts with prepaid card accounts to make that blended approach even more convenient.

Related FamZoo Activity: Set up a virtual family bank.
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1 comment:

rey kevin aka The Blog Post Author

I think the family has huge influence to educate the kids about finance. Family habits and parent behavior involve directly

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